你拿什麼來跟命運斗?
WHAT DO YOU HAVE IN YOU TO WIN DESTINY?
READER: I read your posts and watch your videos and I really agree with what you say and what you stand for.
You seem like really know what you are doing.
I was thinking of getting your help but then I saw what your clients and other people online say about you being stern and fierce. That makes me a bit fearful if you would scold me for nothing.
Do you think I should still seek your services?
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ME: 小小的我,你都克服不了。
你拿什麼來和命運抗戰三四十年?
I'm just a little nobody.
If you can't even overcome this unnecessary fear of me, what do you have in you to fight this battle against your predetermined Destiny for the next 30-40 years?
I'm a logical person, not an irritable one.
Sometimes what clients fear is my ability to rationalise things so well that they can't "win" my logic and that is when they get emotional.
Emotional about their shortcomings.
Their own inabilities, ego, pride, attachments, fears, past mistakes, bias etc...
But darling, emotions don't get us to success by default.
Just a casual example...
If I say, "You're too fat. You need to lose weight..."
Client A reacts with her heart, "OMG, she just insulted me! I knew it! She think she so pretty and slim and got the right to tell me off! What an idiot! Don't know how to say nicely don't say lah!"
Client B who uses her mind would think, "Omg, she's right! How does she do it despite her age? Must listen to what she say!"
"Your Bazi requires you to be much slimmer. If you maintain this weight, you would never be able to rake in more wealth. Not to mention the health problems that are leeching onto you. This is the Metaphysics way on how to lose weight fast for your Bazi..."
Guess who will listen more to my subsequent advice?
I do not use my ability and knowledge to bully others. I do not think I am superior or use my clients to vent.
If your Life isn't going the way you want, something must be wrong somewhere.
You can't be coming for a consultation expecting to hear only good things for yourself. That wasn't why you needed advice in the first place, isn't it?
My job isn't to convince you of how much I can help you, whether I will change myself to suit you and generally be more pleasing to you.
You should more or less know all these from my FB.
I am only here to tell you where you go wrong and what you can do to get to your goal in the shortest time and most effective way possible.
你要不要聽,是你自己的事。
We all have a standard of thinking how others should behave.
I don't make that my business.
I only care about how you can win this battle against yourself.
There are more than enough Feng Shui practitioners in Singapore. Every one of them has their unique appeal, personality and effectiveness.
You create your own reality.
I can't ask you to trust me if you already don't.
You are never obliged to seek my help when you have a jungle of trees to choose from.
Now just saying the above statement ☝️ will have some people saying I am arrogant.
But do yourself a favour. Go strip away your feelings and think hard about the truth in this whole writing.